2026-09-06 Out of sight, out of mind
When you receive a diagnosis of dementia, the world shifts in quiet, unexpected ways. This reflection is about how relationships change, the silence that sometimes follows, and finding the courage to stay connected when it feels easiest to disappear.
When friends drift away
Since my diagnosis, one of the hardest realisations has been watching people quietly step back. I have noticed friends wash their hands of me, unsettled by the changes in my memory and the pauses as I search for words. I am different now, and that reality will not change, but living with dementia should never mean becoming invisible.
Reaching out through the loneliness
Even on days when you feel lost, weary, or deeply lonely, it is vital to keep reaching out. Keep the human connections alive—visit others and welcome visits in return. Remember always that this diagnosis is not your fault, and you should never be treated as though you chose this path.
A space for your journey
Whether you find comfort simply in reading these words quietly, wish to share this post with someone who needs understanding, or want to leave a comment sharing your own journey, you are welcome here. We navigate these moments together, one day at a time.